In this article, leadership and management guru Warren Bennis shares his experience on being a mentee and a mentor. He shares about how he tells his students to “stalk mentors!”. He speaks about mentoring within the context of his belief that there are 2 curricula in an MBA program, the formal one offered by the program, and an informal one which he refers to as the “invisible” curriculum. He argues that this “invisible curriculum”, which includes finding mentors, is equally important to the formal curriculum.
When I went back to get my masters, my “invisible curriculum” took place over 50 cups of coffee with classmates whose comments intrigued me. They would share their stories, warts and all. People from all walks of life – from teachers, peace corps graduates to generals, political figures, and CEOs. This invisible curriculum is one that I continued after I graduated, and one that sparked the idea behind this project. Of those I have had the honor of meeting, I have found a handful of mentors.
But the main reason why I wish to share this is to pass on wisdom that Bennis shares – to “stalk mentors!” Although I am not typically someone who is naturally inclined to bother my mentors for my own gain, I feel compelled to take Bennis’ advice. And I hope to be able to do the same for others in the future.
I encourage you to do the same.